Gurjeevan said:
A sikh is a Saint/Soldier- we have lots of Saint (well wannabe's atleast)- no soldiers, which is y our sisters can openly be with muslims, hindus, whites, blacks etc etc- these guys had the soldier element- they were not radhaswamis- but Sikh brothers. It is a real shame that they r not around now- there is a real need for some defenders of the faith to stand up- a generation down the line, at the rate in which we are accepting our sisters to be with non sikhs- there will be hardly no sikhs left!!!
Or look at it a different way. If we got our act together, all those half Sikh and half whatever kids would come back to their Sikh roots and hopefully rejuvenate the panth.
But from what I see Sikh girls don't even bother to teach their kids about their roots so this is unlikely. Plus we do not do ourselves any favours with caste and hypocritical crap like that.
Also England is generally a VERY IRRELIGIOUS place, and the Anglo-Saxons here in general detest religion. This explains why so many left here for America centuries ago and formed large religious communities there (called the bible belt now I believe), and also why more people have converted to Sikhi in the U.S. than the U.K.
The British plan to integrate all of the foreigners here over generations. That is why here you have a strong subtle media campaign promoting inter-racial relationships in movies, TV programs, adverts etc., whilst when you look at America, these things are rarer in the media. I've said before, the problem is failing to raise children with the Sikh way of life more than anything else. Thsi makes them apathetic and have no feelings for or loyalty to the Sikh way of life.
We need education programs for Sikh girls really urgently as well as changes in hypocritical practices by the males in the community.
Don't despair though, this is what one guy from SP said to me (as much as I can recall):
"Just first look after your family, make them aware of their roots, make sure the boys aren't wimps and make sure the girls have strong minds that aren't easily influenced by westernised media. Plus we have to change our attitudes towards each other, get rid of the hate and unhealthy competition between us, and start looking after each other a bit more. Try and make sure that YOU are NOT a weak link in our community, if enough people think like this then we will turn things around."
Apparently some of these jerks they were fighting are related to the Al-Qaeda type groups that are now getting so much attention in the U.K.
Our people have been through much darker days than this, somehow, if enough of us wish it, we will overcome the issues we are facing today, so don't stress and don't be a weak link.