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I have two boys one aged 5 and one aged 9 and they really fully don't understand the reasons, why they wear pakta,  but they would never cut their hair,  it is not a burden to them.  They know they are Sikhs and SIkhs do not cut their hair, simple.

You only put whatever reasoning you what and you can make up all sorts of reasoning against it, or you just simply accept and move on with your life and focus on what is important.  One of my old best friends is a Hindu and like she said there are more important things to worry about than your appearance, and in the end God would want you to focus on supporting and helping others, rather than be obsessed by your appearance.  Yes, smarten up, so you look presentable, that is what is necessary, but see the bigger picture as well, there are more important things in life