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Harry bhaji

I will always have a duty to my family and always committed to my husband, but I thought that when you go through amrit sanchar it is the epitome of giving your head to Guruji.  You are a Khalsa first, and then wife/stepmother/daughter second.  All the people around you will not go with you when you die, your entire life is about you and your Creator, everything else in between and everything else that happens is illusion and duty.

At least, that's what I thought.  :whatzpointkudi:

That's not to say I'm any less of a wife/stepmother/daughter for being a Sikh.  I think by having a solid, loving relationship with the creator helps you be loving and steady for others in your life.  I do currently struggle to balance my obsession with Sikhi with spending quality time with my husband so perhaps this is just where my mind is at right now!

This might be rather off-topic so I'm going to be quiet now.