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lionsingh ji has given you a bare minimum litmus test.  You should definitely think many times if you don't love or can't love another choice like a Sikh partner, that may be possible. 


We usually get blind for a bit in love to see clearly.


However you should not forget realities of life either,


  • Happiness is more than two people loving each other if that is your end objective, it is just a start
  • Happiness is,
    • Living with your decision as marriage is a long journey
  • Resolving rather than ignoring issues


      • Parents and relatives on both sides
      • Off-springs to come
      • Hard times and good times as two people will always need a third person some time
        • Think if it is your brother, sister, uncle/aunt, mom/dad, etc.


  • Again without repeating, if you are going to expect any of the above to work in the future, don't ignore issues

Technically speaking a Hindu/Sikh marriage can't happen as per Sikh Rehat Maryada unless the non-Sikh party agrees to convert to Sikhism and get their name changed to Kaur/Singh as appropriate. 


You have to ask a Pandit ji about Hindu rituals, beliefs, rashis, superstitions, kundlis, auspicious occasions, stars line up, etc.  Sikhism treats such as fools paradise perpetrated by Brahmins or other such to exploit the flock.


Sat Sri Akal.


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