Sat Sri Akaal,
GURU's BANI is not at all at physical level,
It is One's OWN Deceiving MIND, Mind Deceives and Action Appears
It is a mental activity state before physical actions appear, so having sex or no sex is ignorance
of thought.
A question if the
human mind has passion or attraction for fancy food and wine
and want's to consume fancy wood or wine.
Problem is with attraction or mind which gets attracted or have such passion, may be male or female.
Human mind will blame on Attraction and not the Self, it is blame tendency of MIND to pass the blame, withouth understanding of own self "MIND"
So do if male gets attracted for female for sex,
Isn't it like always resting the blame on others, and not resolving one's own passions.
Secondly Love is unconditional giving which is "TRUE NATURE" of "MOTHER" for every son,
Parent love there children, nourish them,
Woman Love for there SON
Father's Love for Daughter
he always secure here daughter without the feeling of "SEX" unless father is "ADDICT"
and Parental LOVE is not comparable to any physical material things.
But one mind attached to material and other mind drugs and intoxicants.
With no expectation of returns,
Human mind may say they do all this to get help in there old age,
But how affectionately one serve, it is not even little of return.
Mother feels no smell, no timings, for brought up of child and
is attached with feeling of "ONENESS" with child and children.
which is expected by "DHARMA"
As "Dharma" or "Eternal Law" which abides "HUMANS" otherwise there is "SPLIT" in society.
And "TRUTH" is the "PRINCIPAL" act,
This unconditional giving nature is missing to "MALE" mind
One's "MAN" has evoked this "FEMALE" routine and vice versa one is
"POORAN"
The word "POORAN" is very misunderstood, there is no outside physical relation,
It is "METAPHYSICAL" word.
Every Mother wants her Son to Be World's Best and gives unconditional Love with no return
But female who can take charge of her "SECURITY" that one can kill "SEX DEMON" from "MANS MIND" and "ERASE" that it's "MAN's" mind feeling, females are different.
If males have iota of this feeling,
they have not to give birth to children,
then its the way to "POORAN"
But "Lust" is enjoyed by humans, and one gets disconnected from eternal "TRUTH"
and they have to be silent in "ETERNAL COURT" or "SPEAK LIE" and shed "DHARAM"
Every "MIND"
is in search of
"TRUTH" after which "PEACE" dwells
with peace of Mind "Happiness" appears.
Practice of "TRUTH" is resolve to "LUST" to develop "KHALSA"
Bhul Chuk Maaf
Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa
Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh