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Lee ji,

i m happy for you that the divorce of your parents didnt make any damage to your personality nor to ur siblings and as u wrote your experience has made u a better adult...  i think you re the lucky ones.

of course to live in a marriage just because of children and maybe pretend something is not always the right solution...

it all depends on. case to case.

... what i meant by spoilt life is of course just my own feeling... i personally think it can be very hard for children to see their own father just over the weekends after parent's divorce ... and to enter another marriage after divorce with full faith that "this one will be better" can be difficult as well... not to mention prejudice people bear once u tell u re divorced... i just believe one can fulfill his or her life especially in a high quality relationship and only one's own heart can tell who is the right person for such a relationship... it can be a person chosen by parents but it can be someone else as well... and it is always better to choose that right one for the very first time marriage... that s why it is so sensitive matter... not a matter of parent's "decision in good will" only... that s what i meant...

but it is very good to hear an opinion of a person touched by divorce directly as a child... because of ur insight u have more to say to this topic than me