For one thing, I am not a "Sadar ji". If you were based in India occupying part of punjab that actually belongs to the Punjabi's mostly Sikh community, you would know this.!!
What is your religion? As you have avoided to mentioned it again, I am going to assume again, that you are a muslim.
I was wondering why you even posted your article of a reply to another muslim on a Sikhi website?
Do you have a question on Sikhi regarding your conversation with your muslim friend.?
Like I said before, please read Gurbani from Sri Guru Granth Sahib to help you answer your question. Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji belongs to all mankind.
Please look at the pictures in:
http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/sikh-gurus/14399-gurus-martyrdom-stories-ninth-mahal-guru.html#post47338
What do you think of "Free Will" there. Is it right for your ancestors to do this to another human being? Is it right to do this to the Sikh Guru's. Why hasnt your religion changed to be more "humanly".
Was it right to rip Sikh babies and toddlers "guts" outs and hang them around shocked, grieving Sikh mothers.?
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