You are horrendously wrong and gravely misguided. Love of Waheguru is first and foremost, and the earthly father second. What is this love you speak of, a girl who lusts for a young man, repudiates her father’s honour for lust and deserves to be condemned. And meted to the same disgrace she seeks to give to her family. The west has created your dream world, of anything goes, marry at will, divorce as easily, repent at leisure with as many as one can muster. Look at the so called emancipate and their racial inter marriages, are they happy, did they find honour and love, no they did not, in fact they are more lost and deluded than before and return to religion seeking to impose upon a sacred doctrine their own poisonous and selfish views. I vehemently disagree with you sometimes at cost to my own personal situation. I would not give up my faith, because it seems at this juncture God has given up on me. You are woefully wrong and any view you express is taken as your personal view, especially if it contradicts Bani. For my Waheguru, My Supreme Lord I would give my life, what happens to this sentiment when such girls in the heat of lust pursue, or succumb to their lechery and dare to call it love. What complete modernist hogwash.
I think of my forefathers and the future of my faith. I was born and raised in London, and although familiar with both western and eastern as most here are, the eastern culture produces strong, cultured races. The more they seek freedom of will and action, the greater they become embroiled in a web of deceit, hunger and need, in the eternal cycle of death and rebirth. Bani is not only for preaching but practicing. I am not orthodox. But have a genuine love of my faith than using to gain credence or to impress others. Teenage and young adults do not know what love is, for if they did they could not with any conviction spurn and dishonour their fathers for their boyfriends. In a dysfunctional family devoid of love a girl seeks escape, and these people are not to be discussed as the norm, to reflect badly upon an otherwise perfect faith.
