Guru Piaraio Jio,
Gurfateh.
1. Someone told you all wrong. Sri Guru Granth Sahib Jee is OUR "Pio Daddeh ka KHAZANAH"....the TREASURE of our Creator and all that we need to do is LOVE..Jin PREM KIO tin PRABH Payio. Read all you want with all the LOVE ou can muster....dont be afraid of any "mistakes"..Guru Ji FORGIVES everything.
Nothing is going to "get broken"..nothing is going to get "torn"..nothing is going to "get dirty"....treat SGGS as your most precious and loving one....
b) That same someone also told you the story all wrong. Guru GOBIND SINGH JIs sons - all FOUR of them were exemplary souls..and ALL four were MARTYRED...the elder two Ajit Singh and Jhujaar Singh aged 14 and 16 died gallantly fihting the enemy on the battlefiled of Chamkaur while the younger two Zorawar Singh and fateh Singh ..aged 5 and 7...died bricked up alive by the Sirhind Governor for REFUSING to convert to Islam.
The "Guru's son" who made the supreme mistake of TWISTING GURBANI to please the MUGHAL EMPEROR..was Ram Rai eldest son of Guru Har rai ji - seventh Guru Ji. Ram Rai was elder brother of Eight Guru Ji Har Kishan Ji. He was sent to the court of Aurengzeb to explain Gurbani. When the Emperor asked him why Guru nanak Ji wrote Mittee MUSSALMAN KI perreh payeeh Ghumiar ( a reference to the Disposl of the dead - While Hindus cremate their dead..Muslims buried the dead beleiving that on the Final Day of Judgement they will all rise up and face God. Guru nanak ji in Vaar Asa wrote that the Muslim DEAD turn into CLAY and that very clay is then turned into POTS by POTTERS....and these "pots" BURN daily on the Fire. Thus while a Hindu/sikh dead body just burns ONCE..the muslim dead burn daily once they become clay pots..the REAL MEANING behind Gurbani being that once DEAD..the BODY is of no significance - it can be burnt, buried, cast away into the waters/sea..its all the same. When the Muslim Emperor asked Ram Rai..he was frightenend and replied..the Gurbani is WRONG..the word should have been BEIMAAN ( a irreligious/corrupt/bad person) and NOT "MUssalman". For this irreverence shown to Gurbani of Guru nanak Ji, Ram Rai was banished for ever from his fathers presence and later went to DEHRADUN where he established the Dehradun Ram Rai Dera for his own followers. Ram Raiyyas were declared excommunicated and sikhs were not allowed to associate with them.
3. MOST IMORTANT - Gurbani is written with its own UNIQUE GRAMMAR - siharees biharees aunkards etc are of the UTMOST IMPORTANCE as the MEANING CHANGES completley if one is not careful. Many words have to be pronounced with bindi while the bindi is not written - saying it as "written" would make the word MEANINGLESS. English example would be KNIFE. Only a idot would say the word kanife..while everybody else knows the "K" is SILENT and not to be pronounced even though it is there. An example would be GAVA..the correct pronounciation would be GAAVAAN..meaning I SING. Gava as written has no meaning. Ths it si vital that Gurbani be learnt from a TEACHER who is well aware of this..and not just some one who insists on "I SAY EXACTLY as is written..meaning or no meaning..only Guru Ji decides !! That would be like learning to drive from a driving instructor who blindfolds himslef and trusts GURU JI will keep accidents away. Guru Ji has instructed us all to KEEP OUR EYES OPEN..aakleen sahib seveah..USE the God given INTELLECT !!!
4. I have been reading the Gurbani for the past 50 YEARS..I am still a LEARNER...i get new revelations daily...as Guru Ji declares SATGUR MERA NIT NAVAAN. After hundreds of Akhand Paaths / sehaj paaths..i have so much to learn..thats why we are called "SIKHS"..LEARNERS !! a SIKH is a SIKH from day one till the day he/she DIES
5. The SGGS has a PROTOCOL for opening (Parkash) and Closing SAMAPTEE. The SRM has clear instructions. Remember that ONLY the Complete BIR ( one volume SGGS) is GURU when PARKASH. Pothian/gukas are GURBANI but not GURU. Please respect all Gurbani but ONLY the SGGS commands special respect as GURU. Thus the Internet sggs, cds dvds computer Hard Disks etc are NOT "GURU" per se. What LOVE you show towards GURBANI is YOUR OWN perrorgative - dont be misled by self proposed custodians of respect..and no need to feel "guilty" over anything - i would not cover my "monitor/cpu" with a rumalla as the heat could cause a fire/my cpu to be burnt out..nor woudl i feel the need to carry my sggs "DVD" on my head with a sevadaar waving a chaur over it everytime i need to pop it in the cdrom to search for a shabad !! The CDROM tray is NOT a "Palki" by any standard and i dont need to wave a chaur over that either !!( But there are many who will scream "sacrilege" over such remarks..ignore them.) The SGGS/GURBANI is GYAAN GURU - the KNOWLEDGE is the SHABAD GURU - phyiscal deh is not important- following the DIVINE MESSAGE is.
Warmest regards and welcome to reading the SGGS..
Gyani jarnail Singh