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Thank you very much both Ishna & Harry for your input. I guess I can see what you mean by it being better to call it desire sometimes but really, I hear it so often. Guy getting intimate with girl, but not married, he's "lost in lust". Not necessarily. At least not IMO or IME...And yes. My ex husband lusted after me and yeah it was basically evil because if he started the moves and I dared say no, he was miserable to live with, grouchy all day. I ended up putting up with so much bad sex over so many years just to have a slightly less grouchy spouse. :-/Ps. Gotta say I do love that Sikhs mostly keep their men intact. Besides lacking in chemistry between us that was probably the other big issue with my exH. Glad I know better now.
Thank you very much both Ishna & Harry for your input. I guess I can see what you mean by it being better to call it desire sometimes but really, I hear it so often. Guy getting intimate with girl, but not married, he's "lost in lust". Not necessarily. At least not IMO or IME...
And yes. My ex husband lusted after me and yeah it was basically evil because if he started the moves and I dared say no, he was miserable to live with, grouchy all day. I ended up putting up with so much bad sex over so many years just to have a slightly less grouchy spouse. :-/
Ps. Gotta say I do love that Sikhs mostly keep their men intact. Besides lacking in chemistry between us that was probably the other big issue with my exH. Glad I know better now.