Hello, A.mother thank you for your reply.
To answer your questions; the whole reason we have taken this step and wrote our situation on this forum is because we need advice. We are not rushing into
anything. We are not the the type of people, to just run away, that is never going to happen, he would never let me do that, and never let me and my
family split up. We are looking for a way that we can be accepted, he will convert to sikh, and that is the way we will live our lives, and we will
be going to temple every week, our kids will be brought up as sikhs, and thats all they will know. We are not going to run off and get married, that has
never crossed our minds.
I am still studying. We do not want to live seperate lives from our family, that is why we came up with the ideas as desricbed earlier to avoid that.
The way we see it, is we cannot live without eachother( this is not a typical school crush) We will never be with other people. If we cant marry
eachother, we will not marry anyone else because we wont be truly happy, it would be like living in false happiness.
Hi bmandur, thanks for your reply.
We know we want to be married to eachother and be together always. But we do know we are not ready for it yet, due to circumstanceslike me studying. As everyone knows
after indian girls study their parents look for boys for their girls, and want the best possible person to treat their child like a princess. All we know is
we have found eachother, and we want to settle down after studying, work etc and have a happily, married life together. My mum said to me the other day, 'it is so
hard to find a man for you that will treat you like a princess with 100% respect, thats all parents want'. When she said this, i just wish she could have met him, and would have known
how nice, friendly, supportive he is, and would never ever treat me wrongly. I am quite a strong person and would never put up for nay rubbish from anyone. I know how
serious it is, and would never ever do this unless I was 100% sure amd happy, which I am. 
Hi randip singh
I 100% agree in what yuo say. He is 100% to do this, he is ready to embrace sikhism, and learn everything about the culture. He is the one
that says to me I want to go temple with you, we going to go every sunday with our kids.
