Dear Kandola & other Sikhs and members of this site
All questions and and discussions sometime only present doubts and reasons to prove something right which may otherwise be viewed in this world wrong. Guru Nanak Dev Ji has made one thing very clear and that is "Man Jite Jag Jeet" in Japji and the sole purpose of this life is to connect to HIM through MInd and for that align your MIND BODY and Soul. Naam is given the an analogy of a Ship. "nanak Naam Jahaj Hai, Charaiy so Utre Par".
So all discussions moral boundries right and wrongs doubts can be mitigated by "naam Simran" not discussions or debates, these are just "Naam Bina sab Gali Hochian".
Understand one thing Guru made Sikhi as simple as Akal Purukh made our taking breath while living. It is hard to comprehend by ordinary people how can Naam cangive me all solutions and answers. The fact is our Guru has given us a written Gaurantee in Sri Guru Granth Sahibji. Yes GAURANTEE that too in writing.
Dear friends instead of creating doubts after doubts by unnecessary discussions and MANMATT" Follow "Gurmatt" and just engage your self in Naaam Simran.
Naam is such a sharp tool it will mitigate all so called sins and ego and you will in Sahaj avstha win your mind and become a King of this Universe. I am no not saying that Guru nanak Said.
We need not spread Sikhi because by Gurus definition all are Sikhs who comes in His sharan. spread Naam "Soi Gur Ka Sikh Kahai ---Aap japey awra Naam japavey".
Khalsa is akal purukh ki fauj the care taker of Sikhs and Guru Granth sahib is our living Guru "naam ka Jahaz" Naam ke Bauhetey". Every Sikh has an ultimate goal to be Khalas the member of Akal Purukh ki fauj. and in that state of mind and physical regalia Guru has blessed five khalsa to represent him and also said "Khalsa mera roop haiy khas".
So dear friends Naam is more important than any thing else in Sikhi, but it is unfortunate that we have indulged ourselves in the egoistic debates and disciussions and in the process forgotten the real gem of Sikhi.
regards
HP Luthera