It is kalyug. There are problems both with male patriarchy and feminism. These issues will not clear up until the Satyug. Everything in this yug will be taken to destructive extremes. Don't look to human beings for guidance. None can live up to the highest spiritual principles. Only a few will find boat of mukti. Majority are posers after their own benefit. Love everybody. Be kind to everybody. Bless people where they are at, because most have hell in their own minds and suffering in their own life. Put all your trust in Guruji's kirpa. And there you will find your boat.
This doesn't mean its wrong to have activism or honesty. It just means don't be disappointed by what you see. I will tell you something about karam. Most karam stems from woundedness, kaleshas that obscure the jyot of the atma. And nothing in human history has been more wounded than sexuality and relationship between the sexes. This holds the key to some of the deepest history of suffering and karam of the future. And the answer to all karam is dharam, choosing rightful action to correct imbalances and errors of the past. The karam is evenly divided in woundedness between males and females because the atma is neither male nor female, and both have undergone experiences which are negative in past as both sexes.
To heal the deepest wounds as always is to hold the love and praise of God highest in your heart. Then you can be a light of blessing and deep understanding to the woundedness and suffering caused mainly by ignorance that you see around you and within you.
ਬਾਬਾ ਤੂੰ ਐਸੇ ਭਰਮੁ ਚੁਕਾਹੀ ॥
baabaa thoon aisae bharam chukaahee ||
O Baba, get rid of your doubts like this.
ਜੋ ਕਿਛੁ ਕਰਤੁ ਹੈ ਸੋਈ ਕੋਈ ਹੈ ਰੇ ਤੈਸੇ ਜਾਇ ਸਮਾਹੀ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
jo kishh karath hai soee koee hai rae thaisae jaae samaahee ||1|| rehaao ||
As you act, so shall you become, and so you shall go and mingle. ||1||Pause||
ਇਸਤਰੀ ਪੁਰਖ ਹੋਇ ਕੈ ਕਿਆ ਓਇ ਕਰਮ ਕਮਾਹੀ ॥
eisatharee purakh hoe kai kiaa oue karam kamaahee ||
As woman or man, what can anyone do?
ਨਾਨਾ ਰੂਪ ਸਦਾ ਹਹਿ ਤੇਰੇ ਤੁਝ ਹੀ ਮਾਹਿ ਸਮਾਹੀ ॥੨॥
naanaa roop sadhaa hehi thaerae thujh hee maahi samaahee ||2||
The many and various forms are always Yours, O Lord; they shall merge again into You. ||2||
~SGGS Ji p. 162
ਜੋਇ ਖਸਮੁ ਹੈ ਜਾਇਆ ॥
joe khasam hai jaaeiaa ||
The wife gives birth to her husband.
ਪੂਤਿ ਬਾਪੁ ਖੇਲਾਇਆ ॥
pooth baap khaelaaeiaa ||
The son leads his father in play.
ਬਿਨੁ ਸ੍ਰਵਣਾ ਖੀਰੁ ਪਿਲਾਇਆ ॥੧॥
bin sravanaa kheer pilaaeiaa ||1||
Without breasts, the mother nurses her baby. ||1||
ਦੇਖਹੁ ਲੋਗਾ ਕਲਿ ਕੋ ਭਾਉ ॥
dhaekhahu logaa kal ko bhaao ||
Behold, people! This is how it is in the Dark Age of Kali Yuga.
ਸੁਤਿ ਮੁਕਲਾਈ ਅਪਨੀ ਮਾਉ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
suth mukalaaee apanee maao ||1|| rehaao ||
The son marries his mother. ||1||Pause||
~SGGS Ji p. 1194
ਮਾਇਆ ਮੋਹੁ ਸਭੁ ਬਰਲੁ ਹੈ ਦੂਜੈ ਭਾਇ ਖੁਆਈ ਰਾਮ ॥
maaeiaa mohu sabh baral hai dhoojai bhaae khuaaee raam ||
Emotional attachment to Maya is total madness; through the love of duality, one is ruined.
ਮਾਤਾ ਪਿਤਾ ਸਭੁ ਹੇਤੁ ਹੈ ਹੇਤੇ ਪਲਚਾਈ ਰਾਮ ॥
maathaa pithaa sabh haeth hai haethae palachaaee raam ||
Mother and father - all are subject to this love; in this love, they are entangled.
ਹੇਤੇ ਪਲਚਾਈ ਪੁਰਬਿ ਕਮਾਈ ਮੇਟਿ ਨ ਸਕੈ ਕੋਈ ॥
haethae palachaaee purab kamaaee maett n sakai koee ||
They are entangled in this love, on account of their past actions, which no one can erase.
ਜਿਨਿ ਸ੍ਰਿਸਟਿ ਸਾਜੀ ਸੋ ਕਰਿ ਵੇਖੈ ਤਿਸੁ ਜੇਵਡੁ ਅਵਰੁ ਨ ਕੋਈ ॥
jin srisatt saajee so kar vaekhai this jaevadd avar n koee ||
The One who created the Universe, beholds it; no other is as great as He.
~SGGS Ji p. 571
ਖਸਮੁ ਪਛਾਣੈ ਆਪਣਾ ਖੂਲੈ ਬੰਧੁ ਨ ਪਾਇ ॥
khasam pashhaanai aapanaa khoolai bandhh n paae ||
One who realizes his Lord and Master is set free, and not bound by chains.
ਸਬਦਿ ਮਹਲੀ ਖਰਾ ਤੂ ਖਿਮਾ ਸਚੁ ਸੁਖ ਭਾਇ ॥
sabadh mehalee kharaa thoo khimaa sach sukh bhaae ||
Through the Word of the Shabad, enter the Mansion of the Lord's Presence; you shall be blessed with patience, forgiveness, truth and peace.
~SGGS Ji p. 937
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