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Tejwant ji, very nicely put... further i would like to know: suppose if i do not spank my child but verbally abuse him for each slip up or two... do it this or do it like that, see i told you, but wont listen and spit some venom verbally and shower my anger on him.Is verbal abuse equivalent or even worse than literal spanking...? In my recipe, a little bit of spanking and lots of love is required to control the wandering mind of a child... as they often challenge the limits of our patience to see how far-off they can go in particular instance... love motivation does not work every time same is the case with physical spanking... it is very important to understand & keep the right balance between both of them... but as the kids grow a little older, the spanking should be avoided and motivation should take a front seat... Gurfateh
Tejwant ji, very nicely put... further i would like to know: suppose if i do not spank my child but verbally abuse him for each slip up or two... do it this or do it like that, see i told you, but wont listen and spit some venom verbally and shower my anger on him.
Is verbal abuse equivalent or even worse than literal spanking...? In my recipe, a little bit of spanking and lots of love is required to control the wandering mind of a child... as they often challenge the limits of our patience to see how far-off they can go in particular instance... love motivation does not work every time same is the case with physical spanking... it is very important to understand & keep the right balance between both of them... but as the kids grow a little older, the spanking should be avoided and motivation should take a front seat...
Gurfateh
