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While I understand how much you miss my sister, and I don't mean to be irreverent, but your comment about Narayanjot "clipping your ear" made me grin from ear to ear. She did not hesitate to let me, her flesh and blood sister, know when I had stepped out of line with a figurative ear boxing. She was the sort of big sister who loved with a big heart, protected fiercely, guided her younger siblings (who sometimes were unwilling to be lead ), and was a natural teacher. And it is only natural and fitting that she continued in this manner with members of her beloved Sikh family.