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Did you read 'aarta' of Sri Chand? Do you understand the basic teachings of Sikhism with regard to five vices? Why are you obsessed with a need of father being around during formative years? A lot of children in west grow up without fathers and do real brilliant. Who guides them? Ask your mother does she trust if your father, if you have one, to stay away from you and her and the follwing four things will not happen

1. Your father will find a mistress or start visitng prostitutes

2. Your mother will find a new boyfriend

3. You will turn a druggie

4. Your sister will run away from home.

How rich is your family? I know it is a personal question but it is essential to know why you need a father always around especially during formative years. Is your mother educated? Is she able to take care of you in your fathers absence? Do you have caring and rich extended family like fathers or mothers siblings?

You still have not admitted your faith. Did you learn that in Quran?