Definately not a politician
I took a decision a while back to give opinions based more on my actual experience rather than mostly speculative opinions...i guess in that sense they will come across as me-ism...but not intended so.
I should have made it more clear ji... this is often examples that posters (not all) have used in past forums (not just this one) that i have read...and one such poster on this forum (i think without tracking back and looking).
I agree, please state where i have stated otherwise 
Again i agree...but if forgiveness is for each individual to lighten their load, and a lot is born out of carrying this load...mental fatigue, depression, anger, hate, revenge, bitterness..then what is wrong in talking about forgiveness?
Just a personal thing before my words get disected...sometimes i like to think of Amrit as life energy...often life events leave a person drained and exhausted mentally and spiritually because the effects of which you can feel deep within your heart...so i sometimes refer to this feeling of being 'drained' as losing Amrit....just a personal thing...appologies 
The topic of forgiveness came up in the Thread..so being a forum i wrote a few things about it...why do you feel the need to disect my posts and post a reply? i'm guessing because this is a forum and you're free to do so... 
Yes the burden lies on the forgiver...where have i stated otherwise. by not carrying the burden i guess you have liberated yourself from a perticular experience...but then we only have to look around in family, friends, social circle, news...to see that often people walk around with this 'burden' and other things are BORN from it...revenge, hate, anger, depression etc...so what is wrong with disussing it?
I feel like you are disecting my words
no one knows how they will react when such an event takes place...if ever a day, i pray i can react with many of the attributes spoken of in Gurbani...
Thank you ji for the examples...i will take some time out to look read these...always a blessing to get good pointers like this...waheguru.
A very bold statement...my wife is a true blessing in my life...and she is often right...i've learnt a lot from her
how do you come up with such statements from a single example i have given of my life with my wife
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such a strange comment to make...very strange.
Who said she hasn't? you are coming to your own conclusions...i gave one example in my post...My wifes complete character is not based on that one example...far from it..
My wife acknowledges this aspect of her...and she knows it affects her ... i.e. carrying the burden of lifes events as you beautifully put...I have no problem with sharing something if i believe someone somewhere may take something from.
You seem to be also making up your own conclusions about the terms mediation and referring to it as Chanting...again ji, you have no idea what i do or how i do it, or how it effects me, nor if i experience Waheguru through it. Thats is for another topic 
My Simran is helping me with many of my deficiencies...so i am learning ever moment, every day...until the lights turn out 
This is a forum after all...
i try to express myself through it...maybe my style of writing will change further...
Seems you have an issue with a lot of my reference of Simran and Meditation...I continue to do it because it helps me and i feel very close to god through it...but as a human being i'm sure i'll continue to make mistakes a long the way 
appologies ji, This is often as a result of limited time during work hours where i try to post quickly...its my mistake, and i know i should pay so much more time and effort when quoting gurbani...i will try to remedy this...thanks for highlighting ji.
We should start a thread about this...
A sikh, who has an Ego, elements of anger, lust, greed, attachment...who often calls out to God to assist in overcoming them.
God Bless Ji,