Does anyone else ever feel repeatedly let down, and hopeless about finding the right partner for love and marriage?
Does anyone else ever feel repeatedly let down, and hopeless about finding the right partner for love and marriage?
There is a big difference between attachment and love..Im not married yet. I believe God has given me lessons to make me stronger, has taught me that everyone and everything is Karam that needs to be paid off whether dukh or sukh.
If I marry, I pray that I won't live in attachment to my husband because we come and go alone and are meant to focus on our own lives. Gurbani says attachment to relations is false.
Keep looking, as living the life of a householder while practicing Truth is good, but don't think that marriage is the aim of life. People say marriage is an uphill battle but can also be amazing, a source of a lot of Sukh. I think of Guru Harkrishan Ji, who left this earth so young, never had the chance to marry because karam said otherwise.
Enjoy your life without worrying, we could leave this earth at any moment, be grateful for and happy with what u already have. I think of Guru Harkrishan Ji, who left this earth so young, never had the chance to marry because karam said otherwise. If a Guru didn't expect marriage, why should we?
Small things like just being alive, having food to eat, nice weather- are blessings we take for granted each day.
Some of what you are saying makes me feel sadIm not married yet. I believe God has given me lessons to make me stronger, has taught me that everyone and everything is Karam that needs to be paid off whether dukh or sukh.
If I marry, I pray that I won't live in attachment to my husband because we come and go alone and are meant to focus on our own lives. Gurbani says attachment to relations is false.
Keep looking, as living the life of a householder while practicing Truth is good, but don't think that marriage is the aim of life. People say marriage is an uphill battle but can also be amazing, a source of a lot of Sukh. I think of Guru Harkrishan Ji, who left this earth so young, never had the chance to marry because karam said otherwise.
Enjoy your life without worrying, we could leave this earth at any moment, be grateful for and happy with what u already have. I think of Guru Harkrishan Ji, who left this earth so young, never had the chance to marry because karam said otherwise. If a Guru didn't expect marriage, why should we?
Small things like just being alive, having food to eat, nice weather- are blessings we take for granted each day.
I've come across people I thought I could marry, but time will always tell and none of them worked out.
I believe God has given me lessons to make me stronger, and has taught me that everyone and everything is just karam that needs to be paid off whether dukh or sukh.
If I ever marry, I pray that I won't live in attachment to my husband because we come alone and go alone and we're meant to focus on our own lives.
Some of what you are saying makes me feel sad
Love is godLol I know, but don't be.
Love is divine. But love in remembrance of Truth, stay detached, that's real love.
I grew up with an abusive father and now see many female friends and family members in abusive relationships with their husbands and even boyfriends.
I've learnt that loving in attachment is false, humans are fickle and the reality is that they can turn any minute.
Take the Gurus. How many people were they betrayed by, how many people did they show kindness to and received evil in return.
We live in a world of dukh and sukh, love in attachment and hate, it's a cycle.
That's not to say that loving in detachment isn't beautiful, because it is. See God/ Truth in everyone.
I'm not sure that the love for a another human being can be dismissed as attachment.. My reading /feeling of sikhi bani doesn't align with that..
it may help if you offer your definition of love
Im not married yet. I believe God has given me lessons to make me stronger, has taught me that everyone and everything is Karam that needs to be paid off whether dukh or sukh.
If I marry, I pray that I won't live in attachment to my husband because we come and go alone and are meant to focus on our own lives. Gurbani says attachment to relations is false.
Keep looking, as living the life of a householder while practicing Truth is good, but don't think that marriage is the aim of life. People say marriage is an uphill battle but can also be amazing, a source of a lot of Sukh. I think of Guru Harkrishan Ji, who left this earth so young, never had the chance to marry because karam said otherwise.
Enjoy your life without worrying, we could leave this earth at any moment, be grateful for and happy with what u already have. I think of Guru Harkrishan Ji, who left this earth so young, never had the chance to marry because karam said otherwise. If a Guru didn't expect marriage, why should we?
Small things like just being alive, having food to eat, nice weather- are blessings we take for granted each day.
I've learnt that loving in attachment is false, humans are fickle and the reality is that they can turn any minute.
Does anyone else ever feel repeatedly let down, and hopeless about finding the right partner for love and marriage?
Do you think the right partner would complete your life? make you whole? or are you asking as someone completely whole looking to share your life with?
This is very true. Anyone can turn on you, leave you unexpectedly out of no where.Emotional attachment is extremely difficult to avoid developing though....its very difficult to deal with a situation where you give someone your best, there is very mutual interest, but then out of no where, they end up being fake, or hurtful, or take you for granted, or just disappear without saying a word to you....dealing with a very unexpected betrayal or let-down is so challenging...wondering "why," wondering if you did something wrong, wondering if you will find someone else like that person, etc....it can consume your mind, and lead to the hopeless feelings. Why cannot people just have basic decency and treat others with dignity and respect?
Lol its Kalyug, bad souls every where. But it's a blessing of a time to be alive, bhagats can easily detach with a fuller force, the more darkness and pain, the greater detachment, the more light.
....the more the failures the closer the success !Does anyone else ever feel repeatedly let down, and hopeless about finding the right partner for love and marriage?
....the more the failures the closer the success !
Please save sermons for Sunday Service !
it may help if you offer your definition of love
Love =God? How is that for a starter for 10it may help if you offer your definition of love
know this to be the play of Waheguru to perfect the find; don't despair, your other half is also getting dear johns left-right and centre