Re: Why Don't Sikh Girls Want To Marry Sikh Guys? Solution!
There is always an underlying reason or cause for such behaviour. Without knowing this root cause, it proves diffcult to tackle. However, it does usually come to the surface with time!
You should approach with kindness and affection instead of anger. This way, you may get some answers as to why he won't enter a gurdwara and why he feels less love if he is more spiritual. As a sikh, I can assure you that one normally feels much more love when they gain spirituality.
Sometimes people take such steps, knowing very well that others will disapprove. When they do this, they may not even be sure of their own actions, but they get confidence just in the disapproval (a rebel like feature).
Your best bet is to try very hard not to judge and try and see if you can see him in a different light past the surface that is dominating at the moment. Once a person can get to see the true 'self' of the the other, they can help bring them out. Be determined whilst displaying no anxiety or stress.
There is always an underlying reason or cause for such behaviour. Without knowing this root cause, it proves diffcult to tackle. However, it does usually come to the surface with time!
You should approach with kindness and affection instead of anger. This way, you may get some answers as to why he won't enter a gurdwara and why he feels less love if he is more spiritual. As a sikh, I can assure you that one normally feels much more love when they gain spirituality.
Sometimes people take such steps, knowing very well that others will disapprove. When they do this, they may not even be sure of their own actions, but they get confidence just in the disapproval (a rebel like feature).
Your best bet is to try very hard not to judge and try and see if you can see him in a different light past the surface that is dominating at the moment. Once a person can get to see the true 'self' of the the other, they can help bring them out. Be determined whilst displaying no anxiety or stress.