In my mind it is still better to have noble or ideal aims and aspirations to look up to, even if we are unlikely to achieve them in full right now. They serve as a reminder that we can do better, once we rest on our laureals we can become stagnant and non responsive to a changing environment. But I think this is the major crux of where we disagree, in that you think we can are better off without them (ideals).
I think, that its not a good idea for ordinary sikhs to be too concerned with ideals. Infact, i dont think they ever are, and ever have been. We should have good leaders who have, and by leaders I do not mean a politician, or a celebrity sant, i mean a good sikh who is your father, a chacha, a grandfather, a mother, a sister, or someone else in the community. Ordinary sikhs should just accept the prejudices that they are born with, for example, a sikh child is told not to drink alcohol by his mother, and not to eat beef (contraversy aside), and the child accepts this. Society has a way of collecting these prejudices and rules and putting them into the heads of most people, and they live their lives accordingly. There is nothing sinister about this, for it is perfectly good and normal. It is how a good man from any given society will know not to torture a man, or steal, or murder, etc. Such prejudices are present too in a Sikh society, and some of them are uniquely Sikh, just from the virtue of our background.
I see you still insist on defending liberals and their desire for change. Do you realise how ingrained this mentality is, of liberals, that change is good? They believe it so passionately. Cast your mind to university, and perhaps even earlier, where large numbers of socialists gathered. Notice how they say things like 'i wish to make a difference,' such-and-such 'made a difference', they are so convinced that 'difference' is a good thing, and no one ever questions them on this. But why should difference be good?? Infact there is no logical explanation for why it should be, and i've given good arguments on why change is more likely to make things worser, not better. Still they persist and believe things like 'Making a difference' is the best thing one can do. They talk about 'resting on ones laurels', and so on, but really what they want is 'difference', and they want it now!
Those problems you list are real and extant in Sikh community. I do not have any solutions for these problems, nor do I think any liberal is likely to hit upon a solution. What i know, and what almost every sikh knows, is that these problems exist in our society. Now I dont know if once-a-upon-a-time sikhs drank less alcohol, whether they actually drank just as much; whether this is a new problem or an old one, and so on. We can discuss this sanely and rationally, but let me point out one important thing. A liberal is not simply concerned with solving any particular problem, like say alcohol abuse; even if he says he is. Indeed he wishes to do much more than that, and alcohol is just one thing in his grand plan of change. But if you think im just picking minor points; consider this, the neo-sikh's solutions are
always influenced by this; and they are all encompassing and drastic, and
utopian.They are never just to get sikh men to drink less, but to do more than that, to make sikh men much much better. And while keeping this in mind, the neo-sikh is then faced with a much different problem, because not only has he to deal with alcohol abuse, he has to reform the sikh too. In effect what really happens is the neo-sikhs desire to reform society takes over and drowns out the problem of abuse, and this is why i think the neo-sikh will never offer a useful contribution to the problems, which as i've said before, exist, and are apparent.
To analyse the problem of alcohol abuse further, let me suggest how a conservative would differ from a neo-sikh in his approach to the problem; firstly the conservative would concentrate locally: that is, he will only try to solve the problem as it affects him directly. Suppose he has a brother-in-law who likes to have a couple of whisky bottles every day or so, the conservative will see the paiya as the problem, and his solution will take into consideration all he knows about that particular man, about his background, about his motivations, and so on. So in this sense the conservatives approach is specific and local. In contrast the liberal will not worry about any particular case: no, because true friends of humanity do not want to be selfish and only help out those near them, but they wish to help the whole world, equally. So the liberal speaks about the general problem of alcohol abuse, he thus already limits the effectiveness his approach could have, for it doesnt have a specific target in mind, and thus is well adapted and designed for a particular person. Secondly, his approach is misguided for it fails to account for individual variation in alcohol abuses. For it is true that an alcohol abuser from a pend in Panjab, will differ from one who swills beer at Glassi Junction. Thirdly and most pertinently, since the liberal has in mind a generic person with a problem, he is not content only to fix the generic persons propensity to abuse alcohol, instead the liberal will consider any other flaws in his artificial generically contructed person as worthy of solving too. This difference between conservatives and liberals is worth stressing. For conservatives believe that local changes are strongly preferred, with a real person with alcohol abuse in mind, thus a the conservatives approach is: concrete, specific and local; whereas the staple of the liberal is abstract, arbitrary and global.
Note also that for the conservative, the problem occured (his paiya is a drunk), and then he wished to do something about it. He has something to gain from restoring his paiya to good sober health. He has a vested interest in the well-being of his paiya for his sister has married the man, and he wishes for his sister to be in a stable home. The neo-sikh though, does not have a vested interest as such, instead it is compassion for humanity that drives him: it is is benovelence urging him along. The neo-sikh usually just wants to fix a whole society: not a particular person. A conservative though, will never wish to make such a wide change, it simply isnt in his nature to do so. He is concerned only with specific problems that affect him directly, not ones that have nothing to do with him, miles away. The conservative thus does not try to solve problems that do not exist in his direct community, he simply wont try to solve a problem that isnt there. But this is no problem for liberals, for a problem
always exists, to be solved. This is because to a liberal, as long as things arent perfect, then thats not good enough, and it is his responsibility to make them better, regardless of whatever state they are in. To a liberal improvement is always possible, and must be sought out, even if it isnt a pressing one to him directly. So long as there is a problem *somewhere*, and even if he isnt familiar with it directly, he must do something about it. If you dont find this a realistic conception of a liberal, consider those wish to end the iraq war, or those who campaign against the chinese-government in nepal, or the sikhs overseas who think its their duty to campaign for khalistan.
Finally, ask yourself this: why is it that wherever neo-sikhs gather, they never have specific problems in mind. And by that i do not simply mean, say alcohol abuse in general, but alcohol abuse in a particular place, by specific persons. Neo-sikhs frequent sikh discussion boards on the internet and you will hardly ever see them discuss particular problems, but theirs is always a general discussion: something like the decline of sikhi, and then violent agreement inevitably results. The conservative will only try to solve a specific problem, and thus will bring all his ability and resources upon it, whereas since the neo-sikh only has abstract problems in mind, is forced to divide his benovelence amongst many different causes, such as for example, gay rights, animal rights, drug abuse, world politics, to only name a few. Now is it unreasonable for me to think that the conservative is responsible, sensible and most likely to succeed? The conservative might fail to get his paiya sober, but the liberal will always fail because he never gets far enough to actually propose a solution, except the very useless kind which might be, "(bad) sikhs who drink are bad, but if they followed gurbani, they wouldnt drink", which is no solution at all.