Surrender need not mean "giving up" or adopting a fatalistic attitude
I agree, as this thread has progressed so has (I hope), my understanding, I feel a lot happier now that my actions are a surrender rather than trying to change what cannot be changed.
Perhaps a clear-cut example of hukam at work is the tornado. Under certain weather conditions and given a known set of landscape characteristics, tornadoes are more likely in some parts of the world, not others. They cause widespread devastation. How does one fight either a tornado or the personal destruction one endures afterward?
In my view, the surrender is not to the tornado, but to the acceptence of the consequences of the tornado, to accept that there will be much work to do, in dealing with the aftermath. One cannot stop a tornado, but one can assist with the personal destruction afterwards,
But struck by the ineluctable, we bow our heads and then pick ourselves up to begin again. We learn to learn to go on with life within the circle of something that is greater than our personal will.
absolutely agreed!
Many analogies for tornadoes are possible. Let me just give a somewhat humorous example. For many years an eccentric neighbor living just behind me would barbecue meat outdoors for a picnic on Memorial Day (a national holiday in the US coming at the end of May). More than half of the time it storms on Memorial Day in the mid-Atlantic region. He would be out there nevertheless. I would spy him from my kitchen window, stoking the red-hot coals and flipping the steaks, under an umbrella --- but also shrieking and waving his fists at the sky. We all have options within the reality of "stormy weather" on any day of the year. You could say he was a fighter. Now he has passed. That is my memory of him.
I am holding on to that image, it works on so very many levels