Sat Nam, everyone, I am trusting this finds everyone well and good!
We have some interesting situations that are evidently vexing people's minds. Let us see what we can do to put upset minds at ease, with regards the turban, flowing beard, hair, and all related things like these.
First of all let us each remember that the most important, intimate, and the most permanent relationship is the one you have in your heart with God and Guru. So, once you remember this, you are on your way towards a much easier time of things.
We are very, very fortunate- we have been given some wonderful things! Guru Gobind Singh Ji has given us priceless gifts of kesh, kara, kanga, kachera and kirpan, which are the outward items of the inner gifts. We have Siri Guru Granth Sahib, Nam Simran, the Bani and Bana, we have each other, the entire world to live in, and many opportunities to do Sewa every day; not just for each other but also for everyone. When you remember these things, you will soon see that perhaps when a girl prefers a man with no beard, then that should say something about her values, and when a man is discriminated against simply becasue he keeps his beard then that says something about those who are being discriminatory against him. If you think about it, perhaps time has been saved- would the man really wish to work for someone who has that discriminatory attitude? Keeping the beard, turban and the Five K's will ultimately not work against you- they will keep you out of more trouble than they would ever get you into. Regarding finding suitable marriage partners, first, review your relationship with God and Guru and keep it in your mind and heart. If you maintain this, then finding someone who is of like mind and heart is that much easier!
Wahe Guru,
Kulwant