We must not judge on what we are but judge according to what we should be. Mata Sulakhni Ji was not living without her husband. She still had his support and affection. She was a very strong woman and an inspiration. She understood the importance of Guru Nanak Dev Ji's work. If he did not have her support he would not have been able to achieve as much as he did. Just Curious Ji, you keep talking about emotional and physical needs. However she was stronger and more spiritual than requiring his presence constantly. Just curious Ji I advise you to get your head out of the gutter so you can comprehend relationships which are beyond the flesh. And give women the credit that they can look after themselves. The other accusation you lay is that Guru Nanak Dev Ji abandoned his children. Let me ask you 3 questions. People who are in the armed forces and are rarely home-are they abandoning their families? If they die on duty and leave the family behind, are they being irresponsible? At least Guru Nanak Dev Ji still provided support and a wonderful role model from afar. Finally, are these people in the armed forces gallivanting? If you answer yes, then you have no respect. If no, then how can you say Guru Nanak Dev Ji was? His mission, if anything was more important as it was to dispel false beliefs and increase harmony in the world.