- Jul 20, 2012
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I understand what you are saying, and essentially I don't disagree with you. The Bible is a complicated and difficult collection of writings, which is why the Catholic Church has always taught that it needs to be interpreted, and our understanding needs to continually evolve. I don't know anyone personally who would take that passage literally, or see it as indicative of anything other than the misogyny of the writer. Biblical literalism is a relatively modern deviation, encountered mainly in the Protestant sects of the last 150 years or so. It is not a position I hold, so I have no interest in defending it.
I am not sure that the way to remove gender hierarchy from Christianity is to delete all the offending texts. I don't believe misogyny is compatible with the spirit of the Gospel or the life of Jesus. Focusing on the liberating truth of God's presence seems to me a more productive approach than giving undue weight to the letter of the Bible. Obviously Christian institutions could also do much more to promote equality.
I started off by saying that I would probably be more comfortable personally in the Sikh religion, but that isn't what was culturally available to me growing up. Despite its shortcomings, I have found what I consider to be a valid contemplative path within the Carmelite tradition, whose central teacher and saint is Theresa of Avila. I am also very open to learning from other faiths and philosophies.
Funny thing is, I grew up Catholic. My dad had studied to be a catholic priest for 3 years before finally deciding to have a family instead. But what he learned in those 3 years involved a lot of misogyny. I knew at age 8 I wasn't Christian at heart and refused to go back to Sunday school.
I found Sikhi first in my mid 20s. I'm 41 now and have been attending Gurdwara regularly for about 8 years. In full baptized Amritdhari and I am married to a Singh from india. In fact I am living here half the year in Kashmir with my in laws.