The thread that binds us with god is unique, possibly why when one has found enlightenment, it is so hard to communicate to another, like trying to fit the rear axle from a Toyota to a Ford, there is of course a common 'law' of axles, they must be round not square, made of metal, not butter. Your thread is so unique to you, it is a ladder to god made entirely out of your own DNA.
Everything is dual, the more you push the fact that a true sikh is a keshdhari sikh, you take away something from mona sikhs and give something to keshdharis of questionable morals.Every story is different, every life has its own experiences and challenges, is it fair to have a blanket view on monas, or even keshdharis without remembering that we are talking about living breathing human beings with souls, aspirations, desires, needs,
to each his own, the rest are just words, noises, do they actually mean anything, because I am sehajdhari or not means nothing to me, nor does being labelled a sikh, or not, I refuse to be categorised, studied then labelled. These names do not change my relationship with god, nor how I define myself, I am more than happy to be called anything.
I am getting to the stage now where things like corruption in the SPGC, some of the contents of the SRM, the conduct of our dear beloved SPGC, have convinced me that unless you actually read the SGGS and make some effort to understand it, before you implement it, then you are just another person watching a film in a cinema asking everyone else what the plot is, and who did what, and where did he come from,
We all need to have our own thread, anything else is a false path made of butter