Jaspreet 08 ji,
On the contrary you have been well advised. Like the Gardener observes each flower in his Garden so does God conscious people observe who is spiritually ready to progress to the next stage. The gardener will select and pick the right flowers at the right time. Due to ones ignorance some feel it to be impractical because they are anxious to be selected. One should subdue their anxiety. Some time ones expectations are so high because they have read so many books and have created an image of a dynamic personality who will instantly transform them. Unfortunately even if they meet a Sadhu/Sant , beacuse it does not fit their criterion they will be left behind.
For a Sikh their Guru is SGGS. But Gurus advocate the company of a Sadhu or a Sant for guidances. Unfortunately People want a Guru on their terms and hence they go out looking for a Guru. SGGS tells us that Guru/Sant/Sadhu is met by His blessing and ones past Karmas. So improve your Karmas and one day you will be blessed with the company of a true Sadhu/Saint. SGGS gives enough guidance to get ready if one is really interested.
Perform these three basic principles of Guru Nanak Dev ji with utmost sincerety
Seek/pray for the company of a saint who will tell you how to overcome lust, anger, attachment, greed and ego.
- To contemplate on His Naam( Naam Japna)
- work hard based on righteous principles( Dharam dee Kirat Karni
- Sharing with all others what have ( wand shakana)
Life if the Fuel. Lust, Anger, Attachment, Greed and Ego are the five wicks to the Lamp of life. SGGS tells us how to divert these forces to achieve our goal to Salvation. Academics will never meet that goal. Elevate your consciousness by following the teachings of SGGS and leave the rest to HIM.
Guru Bhaley karega.
My humble appologies for Choota muh badi baat. No offence intended .
Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us, bade_ustaad ji I am moved beyond words.