I'm not trying to bicker and it's disappointing that you see it this way. I'll cease and desist trying to talk about this here.
I wasn't speaking about you personally.
There used to be a post about fools who wrangle over meat on this forum. I read it years ago, it went in for years. The same could occur with this topic.
I see that Gurbani isn't easy to decipher for many but if you stop for a moment and truly look to the Guru within (God), all of the answers are there.
My entire family and friendship group was deviod of Sikhs growing up. No-one read Gurbani and I embarked upon the path Alone while everyone around me was busy getting wasted, engaging In rubbish, slandering and gossiping about others, competing with each other etc (Not much has changed.)
I read Guru Granth Sahib Ji. And I sat and meditated,(contemplated on and connected with, learned about, relaxing and feeling peace) on God within. Sometimes I spent hours doing it. I did it while walking, sitting, working, talking.
I learned so much and learned to trust myself, even when everyone was trying to break me, I looked to my Inner Guru, to my Father and sought solace.
Meditating is a vast term, it can mean alot of things at once. Loving someone/ something is meditating on it, thinking about something is meditating on it, feeling something can be meditation. We are in constant samadhi/ meditation, in this show of a world, every Image we meditate on (see) and mediate on too much turning into great desire and attachment.
You can't put logic on that which Is beyond logic. You must simply experience it yourself and feel its gyan.
The reason He says He cannot be known without Love is because he wants us to surpass the Logic of the mind, the Worldly Logic and to Experience Truth.
It's True Unconditional Love. Call it flowery or hippie or whatever, but thats what it is