carolineislands
SPNer
When I mentioned good people from other paths it is just a way of remembering how inclusive the message of Guru Nanak was/is. And a reminder for myself (and whomever else may choose to use it) that we are all equal and no one person has the corner on holiness or uprightness. Also to remember how important it is to be mindful of the fact that it is so easy for ego to slip in, and any time we feel we are better than others, or more enlightened than others, or superior in any way then we are probably not. Just by virtue of the fact that we think of ourselves as superior or set apart is proof enough that we are not because it shows that our ego has taken over. And so by calling oneself "Khalsa" it does seem that a person would have to be very careful of their motives and the spirit with which they do that.
I agree with the statement that the meaning of the ceremony and that it 'awakens the Soul's awareness' is the most important part and that, after that, humility should follow.
I don't know if I'm jiving with the maryada or any of the doctrinal guidelines -- I'm coming from what I've read in the SGGS and the lives of the Gurus.
So pardon me if I am wrong but what I got from the OP was a concern that people were taking the name Khalsa lightly and perhaps were using it out of ego. Although, I agree that we should not judge each other, I also think that it is important to remember to be vigilant in guarding against the infiltration of ego into our motives concerning who we are or are not. I still believe that Guru Nanak's teachings were designed to break down barriers of inequality and that it would behoove us as humans (who are by nature given to a need to distinguish themselves) to try to be mindful of the nature of this battle between ego and true altruism, which requires unselfishness and humility.
I guess my thoughts on this issue come from my background in music, where a person has to be so careful not to start thinking of themselves as something better than others and if they do, their music loses its ability to touch anyone's heart.
Ego only needs a very small crack to weasle its way in.
At least for me.
Just my thoughts as a newbie.
I agree with the statement that the meaning of the ceremony and that it 'awakens the Soul's awareness' is the most important part and that, after that, humility should follow.
I don't know if I'm jiving with the maryada or any of the doctrinal guidelines -- I'm coming from what I've read in the SGGS and the lives of the Gurus.
So pardon me if I am wrong but what I got from the OP was a concern that people were taking the name Khalsa lightly and perhaps were using it out of ego. Although, I agree that we should not judge each other, I also think that it is important to remember to be vigilant in guarding against the infiltration of ego into our motives concerning who we are or are not. I still believe that Guru Nanak's teachings were designed to break down barriers of inequality and that it would behoove us as humans (who are by nature given to a need to distinguish themselves) to try to be mindful of the nature of this battle between ego and true altruism, which requires unselfishness and humility.
I guess my thoughts on this issue come from my background in music, where a person has to be so careful not to start thinking of themselves as something better than others and if they do, their music loses its ability to touch anyone's heart.
Ego only needs a very small crack to weasle its way in.
At least for me.
Just my thoughts as a newbie.