We need to evaluate what sex is controlled in religion with taboos. Perhaps to balance society and also to protect us all from genetic imbalances. If we all had free sex everywhere with many partners, somewhere down the line someone is going to give birth to defective babies. The Samaritan people in Isreal are suffering this fate. They don't accept converts and the don't intermarry, and the children many are defective births.
God is not angry with wrong sex. It's all a matter of living under the hukam of God. Accepting the natural laws of the universe. So what happened to the Samaritans is a prime example of what happens, on a long range effect, if we do not follow hukam. You can't make God angry, because He is complete and always happy and at peace. God's punishment for wrong sex is the natural consequences that occur and this is true for any kind of sin. Many metaphysical things in the universe are affect by everything we and other things do. changiayan boriayan, vage dharam hadoor. Karmi apo apni ke nelle ke door. I all about cause and affect and effect.
I did not understand our Hindu Pandit brother Devan...'s last posting about Ragiis and Dhadhi jetas. But many of these professional ragis are not sipritual, only professional, they are just as human as regular people who go to work. They should be setting good examples, but they do not understand the very Gurbani they sing. If they would understand, then "suniyen dook paap ka naas" hearing to understand gurbani, the pain and sins will discontinue.
Gurbani is so holy and true, that it converts the soul. Christians teach from what Paul says, "Faith comes from hearing and hearing the Word of God." Word of God is a means of explaining information of how to be an effective and successful person. All truth needs no defense. It is not a religion, but info, good info. If we accept hukam, then haomai kehe na koe, ego cannot control us. So this is the concept of Fateh, not a fighting battle against Mogels or angy Hindus, but victory over our ego. Knowledge of truthfulness is our release, our peace, our starting point. Truth knows no religion. The sun rises, regardless of the village's faith. We need to move with the flow of Reality.