Mohinder Singh ji,
Guru Fateh.
I thank you very much in sharing your thoughts. But the point I was trying to raise was not to realize or finding ways to ease pain of others but to explore who is others. Because due to compartmentalization desintigration is happening and we are breaking apart and there is no 'praya' as we all have same genes and are children of God but 'praya' is creation of our conditioned intellect and as such we think the other, as other. In gurbani whenever question of 'peera' is coming, it is not worldly sufferings but realization pains of separation from God in positive sense.
Thanks for your response. This is the beauty of Sikhi especially here at SPN. We can have a conversation if when we disagree. This is the way your Gurus wanted us to be.
In Sikhi, there is no separation between ourselves and Ik Ong Kaar. It is an Abrahamic thought process which got inserted in Sikhi by the earlier translators of Gurbani who were all Christians; hence the biblical twist was unconscious. Sadly, the Sikhs who became their students continued with the same mentality.
Ik Ong Kaar resides in all of us and is manifested by us through our deeds. This modus operandi is learnt by us through Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, our only Guru, our tool box, our GPS.
All sufferings are worldly sufferings. We all go through trials and tribulations which life brings us. And, if our deeds are not as per Gurmat values, then we pay the price and suffer.
One finds oneself “separated from God” by living in an anti Gurmat manner and it could be painful for many who realise this. For those who do not, it does not matter because the cable is not plugged in the Gurmat socket.
Let us see it from different angle, 'ਦੁਖੁ ਦਾਰੂ ਸੁਖੁ ਰੋਗੁ ਭਇਆ ਜਾ ਸੁਖੁ ਤਾਮਿ ਨ ਹੋਈ’ ॥ what is 'dukh daru' unlike the general notion and accordingly interpretation of this pankti is done by most of the scholars, that until and unless someone meets a tragedy he does not walk the righteous path, thus suffering is medicine. Is this gurmat perspective? No No. 'Dukh daaru' is, ' ਦੂਖੁ ਘਨੋ ਜਬ ਹੋਤੇ ਦੂਰਿ’ ॥ I suffered in pain/miseries, when I realized that He was far away/separated from me.Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji.384.12. When we have this type of thinking or realization it makes 'dukh' pains of separation as daaru. So in this pankti dukh becomes in positive sense which is in separation of God. whereas second 'sukh rog bhaiya' entangled in worldly luxuries comes in negative sense which is also in separation of God. Then 'ja sukh tam na hoey' - I am looking that 'sukh' which is eternal and by which (taam - ahnkaar)vikars does not enters into my mind at all.
I beg to differ with you again. We, as Sikhs lead a Miri-Piri life where setbacks are not rare but to the contrary. The above Pankti exactly tells us that we all learn from our experiences and it is funny, when we talk about experiences, they are always related to our setbacks that life offers us in all aspects. Learning from setbacks is,
'ਦੁਖੁ ਦਾਰੂ ਸੁਖੁ ਰੋਗੁ ਭਇਆ ਜਾ ਸੁਖੁ ਤਾਮਿ ਨ ਹੋਈ’ ॥ in my opinion. We can only relish the life of Piri when we know how to conduct our lives in the realm of Miri with the help of Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji.
Ik Ong Kaar dwells within us unlike in other religions where it is a deity and resides in the clouds somewhere.
The same goes for the pankti,
'ਦੂਖੁ ਘਨੋ ਜਬ ਹੋਤੇ ਦੂਰਿ’. ਹੋਤੇ ਦੂਰਿ does not mean separated from Ik Ong Kaar, but falling off the Gurmat path by not taking the scenic route of life rather choosing the one filled with potholes. In this pankti
ਦੂਖੁ is self inflicted. The Rahao part of the Shabad shows us that.
To put it in another way, these are the
'oops' moments/periods of our lives which happen quite frequently. We all take the wrong exits when we are on the Gurmat motor/freeway. The realisation of this what you call
'separation'.
Having said that, we may be talking about the same things by using different terminology.
Thanks for the great interaction.
Regards
Tejwant Singh