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well I would beg to differ, you come across as a bit of a misogynist. I mean hating people is ok and all, but you can't pick and choose individual groups, personally I despise society as a whole, regardless of sex, colour or orientation, but you seem to have an issue with women.Harry Haller I didn't come here to convince anybody nor I represent chauvinistic mindset.
This is the 2 way street both men and women have to deal with their desires and the truth is, now their desires are their priority like any other human being
ah now we are getting to the crux of the problem, for years men have been able to deal with their desires, and women have been hidden away and told what to do, now they are equally living and dealing with their desires, just like men have been for an eternity, and folks like you cannot deal with it, those naughty women folk, wearing short skirts and having fun when they should be at home making daal!
I think first we need to understand that there are only 3 things that proliferated in this world which is “Money, Power and Sex” and sex goes there where is money and power… so if Sikh girls are getting married to out of community this could be the main reason.
Money, power and sex mean nothing to me, and there are many like me, just because you are entwined in the maya of the world, does not mean everyone is, there is a saying, we hate in others, what we hate in ourselves, are you projecting your own issues on to others I wonder, maybe Sikh girls are fed up with the complete identity massacre that takes place when they are married, they have to go from being strong independent women to married zombies, maybe they have had enough.
As you know before 1984 most girls wanted to marry Sikh men (so you can do the comparison sharp declining of Sikh community afterwards).
Where are you getting these facts from? Perhaps you could lend me your copy of 'fairytale facts for the bonkers'
who cares? who cares whether your for or against marriages with donkeys? do you not see? it does not matter anymore whether you wish to validate it or not, your type are dying out, your a neanderthal wishing for the days when you could grab a woman by the hair and drag her back in your cave, and now your throwing your toys out of the pram because those women choose not to play anymore.I'm not against interfaith marriage at all,
if you love someone then you should marry them but mostly Sikh girls are doing this on purpose.
yeah just to spite you, damn those Sikh girls falling in love and getting married ..
Their preference are Non Sikh boys but for this deed women would be blamed more because naturally it is women responsibility to uphold the culture and tradition.
while the men go out whoring and drinking? so whats the problem, does this mean that men will have to take responsibility for this rather than just talking wisely and making lip service? Are you scared you will have to raise the bar?
And the mans duty to? no, let me guess, be the man and be king in his own house! I feel sorry for you, for years you have watched your mothers and aunties slave over their families and their husbands and now its your turn, and they are all marrying Hindus for a life of love and freedom, its a {censored}.It is women's duty to pass on the religious teaching to their children.
What difference would it make, I take it you were raised as a Sikh, but I do not see much Sikhi in your writings, just hate and anger, in any case, given the way Sikhism is going at the moment, with the rituals, ceremonies, politics, and complete lack of any real philosophy other than the precious sakhis that make up most of what is taught in Sikhism, it really does not matter.If she got married to Hindu, would she raise her children as Sikh or Hindu?.
on political level this is all just witty conspiracy, these people are very clever, now they have changed their strategy and they are tackling Sikhs in a different, non violent yet poisonous way by silently diluting the faith making Sikhs appear as clown in the media or proving that they are basically Hindus...
oh come of it, we can do that job much better ourselves, we don't need any help
If Sikhs are Hindus and Hindus are Sikhs then Sikh girls find no difficulty to choose their preference..
Lacking in basic intelligence these Sikh girls huh.
Now you would come and pound on me,
Err I think I will pass, your not my type
Sikh girls are so naive they can't understand the difference??, Yes they can't understand the difference and I'm not saying this hypothetically.
well luckily we have people like you here to educate our naive Sikh girls, phew.
I'm just being careful with my words otherwise there are so many things which may be inappropriate on this site.
we are all adults, what you have already said is pretty inappropriate towards women, so don't worry too much, knock yourself out,
Every human is filled with lust, greed, ego, anger and these cardinal sins emerge out when we get an opportunity and those who seem very modest maybe they haven't got any opportunity yet.
So you decide when and if they should have that opportunity?
However, I'm not different from others I also have to fight with myself everyday but I feel ashamed and demotivated when I see my own community.
strangely enough I felt like that just reading your post