Sat Sri Akal to all,
Stating that the reason for keeping long hair is 'because God gave you hair' is juvinille. God also gave you many other body parts which you end up removing... as someone mentioned earlier your fingernails and toenails. God gave you those didn't He? Or was that some other entity? Why then do you cut your nails? Why do many people get their appendix removed? How about wisdom teeth? Is Sikhi against dentists then? See how juvinille it gets? I don't have anything against keeping long hair but please don't dumb it down to such a contradictory and low level. There may be a scientific or credible reason for keeping long hair but I do not know of it, nor do I feel the need to justify it. My belief is that Guru Gobind Singh Ji needed to create a distinct army in trying times.
Is Sikhi not actually declining? Any statistics that I can find state that it is. Islam is the fastest growing religion in the world, followed by Christianity. Why are these religions able to grow while Sikhi is not? I believe that it may have something to do with the focus on the turban and keeping long hair. The problem is that true Sikhi is not being progressed and propigated. The true message of Nanak and the GGS is not being told to our own children, much less the rest of the world. Rather, those in charge are worried about people cutting their hair.
True Sikhi is much much deeper than long hair and a turban. Not that I have a problem with long hair or turbans but these should not be the focus of our religion. Keeping kesh and wearing a turban is a priviledge and shows utmost respect to all the Khalsa who have sacraficed for Sikhi. But we must remember that these great martyrs sacraficed for the beliefs and values of Sikhi, and not for simply the physical hair on their heads.
Sikhi's (recent) focus on the turban has has confused us and made many of us (especially non-amridharis and westerners) forget what Sikhi is really all about. Some of us never really get a chance to learn because there is such a strong focus on hair that we are not given the opportunity to learn anything else. It seems like a condition: "if you want to be a Sikh, grow your hair first... otherwise you are just a fake." From reading the posts on this site it is obvious that most people that visit this site have some understanding of Sikh doctrines and most seem to have read at least parts of the GGS. But how many, out of the four hundred thousand or so Sikhs born in North America actually have read the GGS? I can guarantee they are few and far between.
In fact I resent the comments of some bloggers that those who do not have unshorn hair are not Sikhs! Well, I have my hair cut and I am a proud Sikh, and no one can stop me from claiming so. One post actually said that people without turbans shouldn't be allowed in Gurdhwaras! Really? Do these people even know how Sikhism came about? It is a faith open to all: short, tall, dark, fair, bald, ugly, pretty, monay, etc. Ideally there is absolutely no discrimination in Sikhi, whether upon physical apprearance, caste, creed, race, or otherwise. Then how is it that our own are discriminating against us?
A Sikh.
1. Its actually GURU JIS HUKM to keep the Five Kakaars. Since Guru Ji didnt say Dont cut toe nails/pull out defective teeth etc etc..its OK to cut nails, go to the dentist etc etc. But HE did say..KEEP YOUR HAIR INTACT...so I do. I dont think thats Juvenile.... no as a matter of fact its Maturity. Its not "juvenility" to Love and follow ones GURU...to the LETTER/SPIRIT.
2. Sikhs who were Martyred..were just given ONE CHOICE - CUT your Hair !! or DIE.
Best example is Bhai TARU SINGH....whose SCALP was REMOVED since he refused to cut his hair. Its totally FALSE to keep the HAIR out of this aspect of Sikh History. HAIR was and IS..100% Part and parcel. ONLY those Heads that had LONG HAIR INTACT were worth the 80 Rupee PRIZE MONEY !!! Many unscrupulous people cut off the HEADS of WOMEN and GIRLS....to claim the 80 rupee prize....claiming these are heads of YOUNG SIKHS !!!
3. GURBANI is proof that its so very very very EASY..to just keep hair....it GROWS without any effort !!! YES you are right that SIKHI is NOT EASY....its NOT just long hair and beards. GURBANI tells us....YOU HAVE SHAVED YOUR HEAD CLEAN........OH BUT YOU FAILED TO SHAVE YOUR MANN OF ITS EVIL DEEDS !!! Bhagat Kabir JI !!! meaning whats the point ?? ( in BOTH..that is "keeping" long hair or "Shaved head" BUT with NO SIKHI WITHIN.
SO IF I am going to have work so hard to CULTIVATE INNER SIKHI..clean my MANN of its evil....so I would RATHER follow the Bhagtas, the GURUS..the Sahibzadahs..the Hundreds of Thousands of Sikh Martyrs..who KEPT LONG HAIR..and work towards INNER SIKHI..rather than be a "shaved head"....doing the SAME THING ???? That way I wont have to do ANYTHING..my hair will keep growing naturally....but as a shaved head..i will have to visit the BARBER...pay good money. to have him PAW my face and head all over......waste money on shaving blades etc etc !!! Keeping Hair is a better bargain ?? dotn you think ??
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Your beleif about Guru Gobind Singh Ji is wrong...GURU NANAK JI had long hair..Long flowing beard..and wore a Dastaar..so did ALL the following GURUS.
The ARMY began long before Guru Gobind Singh Ji.....its Bhagat KABIR JI who demans SIR DHAR GALI MERI AAO....come to me with head on palm..Gaggan Damama Bajio...WAR CRY of Dharma...the Khalsa war agaisnt tyranny began long long before 1469...and certainly long before 1699...0r 1708.... Were all the GURUS 'keeping" long hair etc just for the FUN of IT.... why didnt at least one..(just one out of 10) discard the long hair ??? Why not a single Sikh from Guru Times to the most trying times DISCARD hair to LIVE....Rememeber the HAIR/DASTAAR was the ONE and ONLY THING that could lead to Capture and CERTAIN DEATH - 1708- 1840 !!! Cut your hair..and no one knows who is Sikh/Hindu/Muslim !!!??? why not remain that way..and save so many lives ?? why indeed ?? WHY keep hair and court certain DEATH ??
5. Sikhi in "decline" ?? a widely held opinion..but WRONG. The KHALSA was NEVER in vast numbers..or Majority at any time...even in Maharaja Ranjit Singhs rule..Sikh KINGDOM..but SIKHS still in MINORITY.
A reversal of sorts is happening though.... for each PUNJABI sikh who shaves....another NEW SIKH emerges...one that is complete in Banna and Bani...look at the Western Sikhs....a growing number...and certainly more proud of their BANNA than any Punjabi sikhs i know..their SINGHANEES wear DASTAARS in much larger numbers than Punjabi FEMALES (sikhs). Goes to prove that Sikhi is UNIVERSAL..and not birthright of the punjabis..good riddance to punjabis who shave off. The Full Banna Sikh is in full RESURGANCE in canada UK..USA....welcome !!! just look at any picture of a Sikh Procession nagar kirtan in Vancouver..Surrey..New York...SEA of ..dastaars everywhere....compared to a Gurdass Mann concert in Punjab..a rag tag crowd of ghoneh monehs...Sikhi is NOT in Decline....in Punjab..yes..but not elsewhere...
6. I AGREE 100% with you that those "dastarees" calling names to "shavees" are plain inconsiderate. SIKHI is NOT their private domain. Its NOT the Private domain of ANYONE ( yes shavees too like to claim a lot of things..like I am a good sikh "inside"..ha ha ha..love that !!! They make it sound SO EASSSSSSYYYYYYY !! BUT GURBANI says the EXACT OPPOSITE...inisde sikhi is SO DIFFICULTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT !!!!! Raja and Emperors..Kings and SAGES..FAILED !!!!...so CONGRATS..( if you really think you have the stuff inside..keep it up....it should SHINE AUTOMATICALLY.... Kabir Ji says..it CANNOT BE HIDDEN !!!!.. I KNOW I am having atough time cultivating "sikhi inside"... so i am taking the EASY way out by growing long hair instead...at least thats a start..beginning...may GURU JI bless me....
7. ALL are WELCOME IN ALL GURDWARAS. Its a different matter that NOW a days..the TYPICAL GURDWARA...is NOT the DOOR to GURU JI ..not anymore. The Typical gurdwara is a COMMERCIAL PLACE..where RITUALS are SOLD and BOUGHT.....You can BUY..paaths...ardasses...kirtan praises...good health...pass exams..grow your buisness...etc etc.....BUT SORRY..if you wanted to KNOW the GURU...or HIS WAYS..or learn His GURBANI....then the Typical everyday GURDWARA is NOT the place for you....so IF you get chased out of one by a dastaree just becasue you are a shavee...that is the best thing to happen to you...you are better off going to a genuine place to learn the GURU....the SPN is one such place !!!
Chardeekalla..no offense to anyone..just my thoughts...
Gyani jarnail Singh