- Jan 19, 2014
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Jawarlal nehru once said," Most of the big Empires fell not because of external forces but because of the crumbling within."
Same is true for our religion. We fought the hardest battles but is on the verge to loose because of our own people. In my school's class, out of total 20 boys, 18 were sardars and tied turbans. After 12 class, most of them cut their hair. In my college, 40 boys were from punjab but only 5 were sikhs( an indication that sikh boys that study in good colleges). In my MBA class, all boys were from punjab only 2 are sikhs ,including me.
In normal punjab collges its the same scenario. Whats shocking is that now even the families either dont object to hair cuts or even tell their own sons to get them cut. Shockingly, some boys even cut their hair in mid twenties after taking care of them for 20+ years.
The point is 80 percent of the sikh boys have cut their hair in punjab. After getting married, their sons dont grow hair from birth. So, you can say that once a boy get his hair cut we have 90 oercent chance that one entire sikh generation is gone FOREVER. Imagine the case 70 percent sardars are gone within a period of 20 years.
People who cut their hair are the ones who dont do Nitnem. So, an indication is that 80 percent sikhs dont do nitnem. Again, there guys wont be teaching their children about significance of Japji aor Rehras.
We, the Sardars are on the brink of extinction.
Keeping hair is not the be-all and end-all of Sikhi. There are people who cut their hair, but do nitnem regularly. Then there are people who keep their hair who don't do nitnem at all. It isn't wise to generalize people, or pass judgments solely based on their appearance.
I would venture to say 75% of Muslim women don't wear the Hijab. Maybe 90% of Jewish men don't wear the yarmulka. About 95% of Brahmans don't have a dot on their forehead, or shave their heads with a ponytail in the back, or wear the janeau. I don't hear any of them complaining that their religion is going down the drain. That's because religion is more than just physical appearance. Keeping hair is just the tip of the iceberg in Sikhism. There is so much more.
The people who make Sikhi just about keeping hair are the ones who push people away. When we go to gurdwara and see amritdhari sardars beating each other up over who gets to use the microphone first, we start to wonder why anyone would want to be like that. Amritdharis are supposed to be the vanguards of our faith, but they have let us down. Not all are bad, but the ones who fight each other to represent us sure are rotten. They are the ones who are hurting Sikhi.
Going back to Nitnem, I would say that 90% of people who do their daily Nitnem just babble through it without thinking about what they are saying. They get through it as quickly as they can, like they are getting a chore over with. Whether it is in the shower or during their commute to-and-from work, they just want to get it over and done with, but they aren't gaining any benefit from those words.
This is why Guru ji chose amrit vela as the perfect time to recite Jap ji Sahib. The mind is fresh. You have time to think about what you are saying. That is why Guru ji includes the word "rahao" so many times. It means "pause and reflect".
In today's world, everyone is pressed for time. Maybe we aren't able to pause and reflect. Perhaps then we should search for alternatives. Maybe try to dissect gurbani bit by bit on your own, when you have free time. Or visit forums such as this one, where you can discuss and share ideas so your understanding grows. I believe this is what Guru ji would have wanted. He wasn't just giving us an extra chore to do. He wanted our understanding to grow.
Bhul Chuk Maaf
EDIT: This is a funny and relevant clip
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