Re: Sikh Girls - Sikh men practice one thing, and preach another
Rooh, Thank you! This confussion Sikh girls are feeling has been felt and taught to girls for ages. Parent shoud lead by example and not expect for their girls to follow without knowledge. Spirituality can not have a right for one person and not the next. Each person has to decide which fork in the road they are willing to take.
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We cannot ascend to the heights of the Gurus and the Granth Sahib, and we have therefore reduced their teachings to our lower understanding, thereby distorting Sikhism altogether. Read the Bani - God and spirituality is not related to our physcial body or flesh, but to our soul. To be a [URL="http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/search/forum/38-1.html"]Sikh[/URL] is not as easy as just wearing a piece of cloth. Look at the history of the Gurus and [URL="http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/search/forum/20-1.html"]saints[/URL]. It is a path of much sacrifice. The Gurus sacrificed their own [URL="http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/livekirtan/livekirtan.html"]lives[/URL] and their families. Contemprary so called [URL="http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/search/forum/38-1.html"]Sikhs[/URL] cannot even sacrifice their alcohol!!
Rooh, Thank you! This confussion Sikh girls are feeling has been felt and taught to girls for ages. Parent shoud lead by example and not expect for their girls to follow without knowledge. Spirituality can not have a right for one person and not the next. Each person has to decide which fork in the road they are willing to take.