Dear harry ji,
Just take a break for a day or two and come back. It shall have soothing effect. Instinctive response.
for you or for me ? lol
I have given the matter some thought, the Mool Mantra is pretty definitive and not open to personal interpretation. It is written in stone, and the most important aspect is the fact that there is only one Creator/God/Lord/Energy, and that is without form, death or birth, these are the building blocks of Sikhi.
Reincarnation is a matter of opinion, although I , and many others could put up a good argument against, and debating such is always interesting, Meat, likewise, but just because a Sikh holds vegetarianism close to their heart, and/or reincarnation (although strangely they seem to go hand in hand), that does not make them any less Sikhs in my view. Such debate can only enrich and enlighten others, and is a good thing, provided there is no effort to convert.
However, I and others should stand up and be counted on Mool Mantra, it is impossible for a Sikh to believe in deities, physical manifestations of God, or Gods that are reborn. God does not take a physical form, is not recognised as a physical form, and recognition of such puts you outside of Sikhism. Opposition to such should be made politely and firmly, as there is nothing ambiguous about Mool Mantra, the very foundations of our religion.