Waheguruji Ka Khalsa, Waheguruji Ki Fateh.
There are many kinds of peolple on many diferent levels, acordingly, with the amounts of love, hate, open mindness or ignorance they have.
To be this good or that bad, or to be very spiritual or not very spiritual is not determine by gender or if gay or not. Maybe there is some Karma involve, who know, not us for sure.
Surelly only Waheguru knows the whole truth and if we really cared about Sikhism, our atitude would surely be a diferent one, just wondering how many of you have taken Amrit and living up to Khalsa.
Instead of debating on what is right and what is wrong, we should see how we can each become better and how we can become real, truthfull and get closer to GOD.
Spirituality is very much personal, and each do or dont do acordingly to how they live and the experience in life, so lay off, we are not the ones to judge and call out whats right or wrong.
Waheguruji will handle that and handle each of us acordingly.
Regardless of being gay or not, im sure its more important if we are loving and having tolerance towards the rest of GOD´s creation.
I have read so many post and thoughts and sincerely 90% of you havent or didnt give Sri Guru Grant Sahib Ji the respect and apreciation that it deserves.
Instead of finding fault and stiring up polemic, we should work on our devotion and learn to see our True Guru as what it really is, its sad to see that you consider and see it as a simple book and put it on the same level as the bible
Sri Guru Grant Sahib is our True Guru, the embodiment of Truth, our source of Power on earth the essence of all 10 Guru, wich again is ONE in true essence. Our biggest test I believe is FAITH.
Please dont be fooled by Gurujis form and presence, Guruji is so very much aware, Guruji sees all our actions, Guruji hears and responds our prayers, Guruji is there extending its endless mercy to us, be we, we are so unfurtunate that we dont see it, but we see fault, we are missing out, because we have no faith in Guruji, and we have no faith in each other, so its so much easier to pretend that we are doing well by pointing out what we think is wrong with others.
Im 31 years old im aspiring to become Khalsa and dedicate my life to Waheguru and to spread the prescious light of Sikhism and im also gay, it took me 30 years to finally accept myself and love myself as I am.
Square minded people made it dificult for me to be happy, have self esteem and grow spiritualy as I really should have.
Because of my need of acceptance and fare of rejection I did and became what others wanted me to, and this on the long run can only harm and destroy a person. It was almost too late when I realised it.
And for you that think we are wrong or evil anyone can be and its not a matter of gay or hetero, but I believe in Karma so watch out, your next child or future child can be born gay, but then again I pray that none will take birth in a family where there is no love. Love has no requirements or rules, you either love or you dont, if you dont you are so far from it all.
Peace and love!
yours trully
T. Talwaar Singh