Well, I think the issue raised is a mere waste of time and rubbish in itself rather than accusing whatever practices as rubbish. Yes, I do agree that its indirectly promoting hatred more than love & compassion. At the end-of-the day, we all have a choice, and choice is to either just ignore and quietly depart or partake in the event or merely observe it in silenceif you just do not wish to be part of it. Afterall, how does it affect your personal beliefs.
At least we are not like the Muslims/Malays in Malaysia where the Muslims are strictly prohibited to undertake or participate in any event that the religious leaders THINK is unislamic or even go to the extent of ruling on how th Muslim should behave, act etc. That is not freedom. That is not being flexible. In the end, whatever we do, our actions will speak for it self before GoD. Its not for us to argue about something, to stop someone fom doing something that they want to do etc, as long as its not a criminal offence, as long as it does not injure someone. We all must just continue to live life, and learn from all arounf for ourselves, to be a better person and to serve all irregardless of race, religion, sex whatever. We are afterall brothers and sisters, Muslim, Hindu, Christian, Buddhist, Animistic, Aethist or Sikh or whatever one wishes to profess.
So let's end this unnecessary argument on what is right and what is wrong, let the age old practices go on in peace, and we as bystanders merely observe it if we think its not right to partcipate in it.
Wishing everyone a Merry X'Mas & a Wonderfull Blessed New Year.
Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh!